I know that period sex can get messy, especially if you’re really heavy. But there are still those in between days where your uterus doesn’t feel like it’s going to fall out and sex is totally doable.
Usually, my periods are moderate the first two days, and then light the next few days until I’m done. I’m okay with not having sex those first two days because sex isn’t the top thing on my list during that time, but on the third day, sex is fine and on the fourth day, I want it.
Brandon and I have been together for about a year now, and he still won’t have period sex with me. He hates the idea of it.
Well, I hate the idea of him coming inside of my mouth, but I still swallow, now don’t I?
So, naturally, I don’t have a problem with us having period sex, all things considered. Of course, I don’t expect him to go down on me, but for god-sakes, he can have a quickie with me on a light day.
Of course, I asked Lois for advice once I immediately discovered his preference for no period sex. She always provides the best, unabashed advice, and she’s not judgmental at all. I knew I could ask her opinion, considering she’d probably been through this situation once or twice before.
Her advice, which she gave to me months ago, was to subtly flirt with him and tease him.
Get him in the mood, and then your period will be the last thing on his mind.
I’ve neglected to try her technique for months now. Most of the time, we’re apart while I’m on my period anyway, but lately, Brandon and I have been spending every waking moment together.
So when I started my period at his apartment recently, I decided to take her advice. I waited for a light day, about my fourth day on my period, and then I went for it.
I began when we woke up, which is when he’s always horny. I began kissing him and gently biting his lip. Gradually, I worked up to stroking him and rubbing him. (On a side note, I’d like to mention that you shouldn’t go down on him during this process. Make him think that intercourse is the only way he’ll be getting off with you at that moment.)
Like clockwork, my honey was in the mood to have sex.
I told him I was still on my period, but he was already at the point of no return. For reassurance, I told him that I was almost off of my period and that we wouldn’t make a mess. We got a towel anyway, just in case.
The sex was great, and within the next twenty minutes, there were two love birds laying in the bed with smiles on their faces.
What are your thoughts on period sex? Do you love it or hate it?
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